Lesbisk eller kÀr i killar?
Hur vet man om man Àr lesbisk eller om jag blir kÀr i killar. Eller alltsÄ hur vet man???
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Jag trodde att jag bara gillade killar tills jag blev kÀr i min bÀstis lol. HÀr Àr nÄgra tecken man Àr bisexuell:
1. ATT DU ENS UNDRAR HAHAHAHA!! Om du inte Àr sÀker pÄ om du gillar tjejer eller killar, sÄ kan det mycket vÀl vara sÄ att du gillar bÄde och!!
2. Om du skulle kunna se dig sjÀlv kyssa en tjej, Àven om du inte kan se dig sjÀlv gifta dig med en sÄ skulle det kunna vara för att samhÀllet inte har normaliserat homosexualitet sÄ mycket bara, Àven om man inte Àr homophob.
3. Om det kÀnns som att du flörtar med vilket kön du Àn pratar med. (Usch det Àr pÄ riktigt ett struggle.)
4. Om du ser lesbiska relationer och blir lite avis. Liksom, jag skulle vilja ha det dÀr.
5. Om du fÄr crushes pÄ bÄde kvinnliga och manliga karaktÀrer i filmer.
Och sen sĂ„ Ă€r det klart att om de flesta stĂ€mmer sĂ„ kan det vara sĂ„ att du bara Ă€r lesbisk. Inget Ă€r sĂ€kert. Och det kan ocksĂ„ vara sĂ„ att du Ă€r kĂ€r i IDĂN att vara kĂ€r i en kille. Den typiska mamma pappa barn familjen, om du fattar vad jag menar. Eller sĂ„ Ă€r det sĂ„ att du inte Ă€r kĂ€r i nĂ„got av könen, att du Ă€r aromantisk. Det Ă€r nĂ€r man helt enkelt inte blir kĂ€r. Asexualitet Ă€r nĂ€r man inte blir sexuellt attraherad av nĂ„gon alls. Oj. Nu fick jag lite panik, tĂ€nk om jag bara inbillar mig allt jag nĂ„gonsin kĂ€nt??!!! Ăsch. Jag Ă€r sĂ€kert bi. Aja, lycka till med dina funderingar! Bara du kan veta sĂ€kert. GĂ„ med din magkĂ€nsla. Du har gott om tid pĂ„ dig att klura ut din sexualitet. Kraaaam! â€ïž
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10Jag Àr lesbisk och jag blev alltid pirrig i nÀrheten av tjejer
21Vet inte
Jag vill ocksÄ vara lesbisk
22Jag vill bli ocksÄ lesbisk
11Hm dÄ Àr du bisexuell om du gillar bÄda könen sÄ
1Ăr du kĂ€r i f*****g tjejer nĂ€r jag Ă€r en tjej j***a mig
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Hej!
Tack för din frÄga!
Det Àr vanligt att fundera kring vilken sexuell lÀggning man har.
För det mesta brukar man mÀrka om man blir kÀr i eller tÀnder pÄ tjejer, killar, personer eller bÄde och.
Oavsett om du blir kÀr i killar, tjejer, personer eller bÄde och sÄ Àndrar det inte pÄ den person du Àr och du behöver inte heller bestÀmma vilken sexuell lÀggning du har.
Ens sexuella lÀggning kan ocksÄ Àndras under ens liv.
PÄ umo.se finns det mycket bra att lÀsa kring sexuell lÀggning. Du kan ocksÄ boka en tid pÄ en ungdomsmottagning om du vill prata mer om hur du kÀnner inför det hÀr.